Only Men Go to the Grave

Director: Abdulla Al Kaabi
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The film tackles taboo issues in Arab society such as feminism and transgenderism.
The first collaboration between Iraqi and Iranian Arabs following the first Gulf war.
The film landed its world premiere at the Dubai International Film Festival, where it won the Best Muhr Emirati Feature Award.
The film marks director Abdulla Al Kaabi’s debut feature film after his short film, The Philosopher, with famed French actor Jean Reno.
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2016 / UAE80 min/ Drama
Original Title
Al Rejal Faqat E’nda Al Dafn
Set in 1988, a blind mother welcomes her estranged daughters to tell them a secret. Unfortunately, she accidentally dies while sharing it. During the funeral, the daughters try to deal with her sudden death and also work together to unveil her secret. Throughout the funeral, their own lives continue to unravel, giving room for buried family tensions to gradually surface, while struggling to deal with their own secrets and guilt. The arrival of an unfamiliar guest rocks the entire foundation of their family.
Saleema Yaqoub
Heba Sabah
Abdelreza Nasari
Screenwriter: Abdulla Al Kaabi
Dunia Ayaso
Félix Sabroso
DOP: Payman Shadmanfar
Editor: Meysam Molaei
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Production Company(ies)
El Booma Films
Abdulla Al Kaabi
Farshad Mahoutforoush
Kambiz Safari
film festivals
KASHISH Mumbai International Queer Film Festival, India
Oran International Arabic Film Festival, Algeria
Cape Town International Film Market & Festival (CTIFMF), South Africa
Sudan Independent Film Festival (SIFF), Sudan
Arab Cinema Week in New York, USA
Silk Road Film Festival, Ireland
Dubai International Film Festival (DIFF), UAE
Malmö Arab Film Festival (MAFF), Sweden
Emirates Short Film Festival (ESFF), UAE
Casablanca Arab Film Festival, Morocco
Arab Film Festival, South Korea
film awards
Best Muhr Feature Award at the Dubai International Film Festival (DIFF), UAE
Best Film Score Award at the Malmö Arab Film Festival (MAFF), Sweden
“Al Kaabi explores with great delicacy the tension between how much we need or want to know about others’ personal lives — even close relatives’ — and what is better left unknown.” Gulf News
“Only Men Go to the Grave...seems designed to challenge expectations about Emirati filmmaking.” Chris Newbould - The National
“An Emirati filmmaker is pushing boundaries and bypassing state censors by delicately unraveling a story about a traditional Arab family grappling with issues of homosexual love, gender identity, sectarianism and women's rights.” VOA News